Single parent families and dating


28-Jul-2019 06:54

In reality, the things I want are fantastic nights out followed by lots of sex – but sadly they didn’t seem to top his list of priorities.

It might sound harsh to ditch someone because they’re happy simply cuddling on the sofa once a week, but as a single mum, my free time when I can actually leave the house is precious, and I certainly didn’t want to waste it watching telly with Tom.

I do realise this all sounds pretty depressing, but then, by some miracle, when I’d been single for around a year I met Jack* – someone I really liked who seemed to really like me.

As his kids were grown up, he didn’t suggest we have our first date at a soft play area or express his disdain for solo parents.

Aside from the obvious safety issues, nobody expects child-free, single women to be happy with dates in their own living room, so why should I settle for that?

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Things with Jack unfortunately fizzled out after a year or so – he was having a second youth of constant holidays and weekend breaks that I just couldn’t join in on, as much as I loved his approach to life.At first, it seemed exciting creating profiles on and Plenty of Fish and immediately getting loads of messages.But I soon got the wind knocked out of my sails when I opened up to friends and family about my newfound love life.Their comments made me feel that my desire for dating and sex meant I wasn’t measuring up as a mum in some way.

But I seriously doubt any single dads ever receive the same type of criticism.

And while I obviously ditched the dating sites while I was seeing Jack, I’m now on the verge of reactivating my profiles.