Dating a guy out of my league
Of course, when you’re in love with a girl, you can’t do anything but think with your heart.
But if you really want to win a girl’s heart, you need to learn to still your heart, and play the game of hearts with your mind.
You can be that guy too, as long as you understand what it takes to win a girl’s heart.
[Read: How to charm a girl and flatter her into liking you] Use these 9 steps on how to win a girl’s heart, and you’ll surely be on your way to impressing the girl you like effortlessly. Let’s face it, if you want to date a great girl who’s desired by several guys, you need to be a great guy too.
You’re seeing a great guy and you THINK you’re getting close, but then he suddenly pulls away and you have NO IDEA what happened. She’d put it together in a few hours over a few glasses of wine with her girlfriends. Because when you compare the number of factors that determine whether a guy is date-worthy with the number of factors that determine whether you’re date-worthy, it’s night and day. Men ask two questions: Do I want to sleep with you? All of this is just a long way of stating what every man knows – and most women don’t: We are not nearly as concerned with your merits as much as how you make us FEEL. If you’re fun and easygoing, it makes us enjoy our time together. It makes us want to keep you around forever and ever. My husband has a male friend who broke up with his girlfriend because supposedly, she wasn’t up to his intellectual level.
I can tell you what happened – if you’re ready to turn your love life around forever… I thought the list was so hysterical, that I included it in the first draft of my book. In all my years of dating, I never stopped to dissect the behavior of my female dates. Do I feel good about myself when I’m spending time with you? Which means that all of your amazing qualities may not even matter to him at ALL! You ran a half-marathon and raised twelve thousand dollars for leukemia? Understand, men DO value intelligence, but they also want from their girlfriend what they CAN’T get from their business associates. I have another guy friend who has complained about not being able to have deep discussions with virtually every single girlfriend he has had.
Amazingly, the reasons are always the same – and they were the very same reasons I’d pulled away from many surprised, confused women myself… Here’s what I came up with: She wasn’t physically attractive to me. 9 steps to win the heart of a girl you like Ever wondered why some guys are such charmers?They seem to win the affection of all the girls all the time.[Read: 12 ways to get any girl’s attention no matter where you are] And once you do get her attention, all you need to do is talk and charm your way into her heart.
How to win a girl’s heart effortlessly Most guys make the genuine mistake of playing the game of winning hearts with their heart.
You see, I have a unique perspective – I’ve not only dated hundreds of women (before I became happily married) but I’m a coach for both women and men. Suddenly, the editors were on the phone with a question: “Funny list, but what about a list for women? It’s not that I was above it; rather, I never even thought about it. You graduated summa cum laude from an Ivy League masters program? I think a lot of women reading your blog are concerned about more than just getting a 2nd date. And from the guys I’ve known, it seems that they care more about sexiness and lightness when it comes to deciding to have LTRs with women.